in my head : fool's gold - adrienne peirce

everyone and everything is breaking down all around me .

relationships on their own are never easy , so it isn't completely off base to assume that long distance relationships are even harder . there is no way to ever be prepared for the fights that seem to manifest out of nothing . everything is magnified a million times over when you're apart ; and when you throw in the stress from work / assignment deadlines / finances / etc. , you get a cesspool of never ending conundrums that would faze even the most seasoned relationship pros .

like i've said many times before : i'm no pro when it comes to relationships . but i take a look at everyone and everything around me and it seems like everyone is getting distracted by the " now " . sure it isn't working " now " , but weren't there always times when it wasn't working ?

look , we all get distracted . it's either someone / something new or the incessant problems that seem to crop up in your relationship always at the wrong time . he's never going to have enough time to talk to you . he's always going to say something stupid . he's never always going to see your point of view . he's stupid . he's argumentative . but he also loves you . he always listens to you when there's no one else who will . he's the one who tells you that it's going to be alright . he makes you laugh . he's yours .




i think everyone needs to go watch julie delpy's 2 days in paris or just go read what i quoted . i think you'll all get it then .



xoxoxoxo ,
soho a bit saddened by what is going on around her .